Fuerteventura Forum

General Chit Chat & Queries - no commercial links => General Chat - old => Topic started by: Globetrotter on September 24, 2013, 00:26:32 AM

Title: Dear Admin should we have a new section headed name and shame
Post by: Globetrotter on September 24, 2013, 00:26:32 AM
And post names of posters who offend/jump the gun/insult/or who mearly post without thinking if a reply is apt or not.
Guess it may fill up quickly, lol. :'( :'( :'(
Title: Re: Dear Admin should we have a new section headed name and shame
Post by: emmi on September 24, 2013, 07:58:15 AM
I do so agree!!! 
Title: Re: Dear Admin should we have a new section headed name and shame
Post by: Paddster on September 24, 2013, 08:23:03 AM
I could name one straight off but won't  :-X :-X
Title: Re: Dear Admin should we have a new section headed name and shame
Post by: Blueboy7 on September 24, 2013, 12:02:57 PM
What Joy, bet you cant wait to get to Fuerteventura with the hope in your heart of bumping into these nice people
Title: Re: Dear Admin should we have a new section headed name and shame
Post by: Brightspark on September 24, 2013, 13:00:31 PM
God how I miss the old days of the internet, where you could pretty much say anything you like, and you knew full well that the other person would fire back as good as they got, then you just moved on.
Now it seems full of mentally frail, pc brigade lovers and moaners.

I don't really know where it went wrong, I guess Labour didn't help in the noughties when they pledged to drive down the cost of owning a pc and helping make it accessible to many.

Give me 10 nutters speaking their mind anyday over 1 mentally frail PC crusader.
Title: Re: Dear Admin should we have a new section headed name and shame
Post by: admin on September 24, 2013, 14:47:32 PM
Most of us are guilty of saying the wrong thing inappropriately, butting in at the wrong time, misunderstanding the context of a discussion or saying something that in hindsight may be ill advised from time to time.

I doubt a 'name and shame' will help and I'm sure it won't reduce any bad feeling.

For those that do genuinely offend regularly we can ban them if they don't heed our warnings. To date, rightly or wrongly, we haven't banned anyone (for those reasons) - most people take the hint.

BS - I understand where you're at. In the pub I can enjoy a good slanging match but there are many things I've said in the pub that I'm glad weren't committed to print and as I've said several times before, the 'halcyon days' may have been fun for some but behind the scenes too many people were being genuinely distressed and upset and we were getting involved in legal situations far too often for our pleasure.
In this context, I think the 'PC' thing is a facile argument and just used to belittle people's discomfort - usually used alongside 'man up' or 'grow a pair'. Before the term 'PC' existed it was just called good manners or civilised behaviour.
As in rearing children or pets, there comes a time when you have to stop them defecating all over the place - especially when you have guests coming round.

...and I've also said before, there is nothing wrong with a heated debate - but debaters and even boxers are told to stick to the rules and keep it clean.




Having said all that....

QuoteGive me 10 nutters speaking their mind anyday over 1 mentally frail PC crusader.
Isn't that what the Jeremy Kyle show is?

QuoteI guess Labour didn't help in the noughties when they pledged to drive down the cost of owning a pc and helping make it accessible to many.
Was that when they pledged to make the earth rotate around the sun?

QuoteNow it seems full of mentally frail, pc brigade lovers and moaners.
Stop moaning about it. Man up and grow a pair.

To sue me please contact our lawyers Franklin & Bash.
Title: Re: Dear Admin should we have a new section headed name and shame
Post by: zedzedeleven on September 24, 2013, 14:53:27 PM
Aye, what Brightspark sez. Some forums are unchanged, others (like this one) are becoming barren of original material, just the same fun boy three regurgitating drivel. almost as if they get paid for any contribution, however banal, as long as it gets the viewing figures up. I find it strange that we have an admin fussing over inconsequential little things, busy moving posts from one section to another yet if you ask me ninety percent of posts should be redirected straight to dross.
Title: Re: Dear Admin should we have a new section headed name and shame
Post by: admin on September 24, 2013, 15:01:25 PM
QuoteI find it strange that we have an admin fussing over inconsequential little things, busy moving posts from one section to another

I'd assumed you'd read this:

http://www.fuerteventura-forum.com/index.php?topic=16531.msg291978#msg291978 (http://www.fuerteventura-forum.com/index.php?topic=16531.msg291978#msg291978)

If there's anything there you don't understand let me know and I'll simplify it for you.
Title: Re: Dear Admin should we have a new section headed name and shame
Post by: Brightspark on September 24, 2013, 15:10:38 PM
A "name and shame" has never been successful on any forum, and come to think of it, any other platform on the internet.
They don't work because individuals become judge and jury, flaming people who "they just don't like".
Don't know whether OP was actually being serious or not when making this thread (hopefully not) but if he was I would hazard a guess that he hasn't been around many forums to make such a suggestion.
Title: Re: Dear Admin should we have a new section headed name and shame
Post by: Brightspark on September 24, 2013, 15:12:22 PM
Quote from: admin on September 24, 2013, 14:47:32 PM


QuoteNow it seems full of mentally frail, pc brigade lovers and moaners.
Stop moaning about it. Man up and grow a pair.



Stop moaning about my moaning and man up, jesus
Title: Re: Dear Admin should we have a new section headed name and shame
Post by: admin on September 24, 2013, 15:17:10 PM
.... and I'd tried to keep my identity secret.
Title: Re: Dear Admin should we have a new section headed name and shame
Post by: Globetrotter on September 24, 2013, 16:07:49 PM
Quote from: admin on September 24, 2013, 14:47:32 PM
Most of us are guilty of saying the wrong thing inappropriately, butting in at the wrong time, misunderstanding the context of a discussion or saying something that in hindsight may be ill advised from time to time.

I doubt a 'name and shame' will help and I'm sure it won't reduce any bad feeling.

For those that do genuinely offend regularly we can ban them if they don't heed our warnings. To date, rightly or wrongly, we haven't banned anyone (for those reasons) - most people take the hint.

BS - I understand where you're at. In the pub I can enjoy a good slanging match but there are many things I've said in the pub that I'm glad weren't committed to print and as I've said several times before, the 'halcyon days' may have been fun for some but behind the scenes too many people were being genuinely distressed and upset and we were getting involved in legal situations far too often for our pleasure.
In this context, I think the 'PC' thing is a facile argument and just used to belittle people's discomfort - usually used alongside 'man up' or 'grow a pair'. Before the term 'PC' existed it was just called good manners or civilised behaviour.
As in rearing children or pets, there comes a time when you have to stop them defecating all over the place - especially when you have guests coming round.

...and I've also said before, there is nothing wrong with a heated debate - but debaters and even boxers are told to stick to the rules and keep it clean.




Having said all that....

QuoteGive me 10 nutters speaking their mind anyday over 1 mentally frail PC crusader.
Isn't that what the Jeremy Kyle show is?

QuoteI guess Labour didn't help in the noughties when they pledged to drive down the cost of owning a pc and helping make it accessible to many.
Was that when they pledged to make the earth rotate around the sun?

QuoteNow it seems full of mentally frail, pc brigade lovers and moaners.
Stop moaning about it. Man up and grow a pair.

To sue me please contact our lawyers Franklin & Bash.

Well put Norrin
And Brightspark, OP did not start this thread, I did, which was never meant to be taken seriously, just a tongue in cheek post. :-* :-*
Title: Re: Dear Admin should we have a new section headed name and shame
Post by: zedzedeleven on September 24, 2013, 16:19:03 PM
!Quote op < And Brightspark, OP did not start this thread, I did >
Classic.
It has no indication that it was a tongue in cheek post, why, it even has serious threatening and sinister little men guarding it. Stop back pedalling op, stick to your guns.
Title: Re: Dear Admin should we have a new section headed name and shame
Post by: Ivemovedon on September 24, 2013, 16:21:11 PM
maybe we should have a section that names and shames those who start daft threads.
Title: Re: Dear Admin should we have a new section headed name and shame
Post by: zedzedeleven on September 24, 2013, 16:29:02 PM
Quote admin < If there's anything there you don't understand let me know and I'll simplify it for you. >
What I don`t understand is your obsession with tidying up. My post made reference to the gang of three posting endless drivel, you don`t comment on that part of the post, just the bit about square pegs not being in square holes. All forums have contributors that don`t get it right, some just don`t care, some do care but make a mistake. Why not just leave it unless it`s some deliberate attempt to , for example , post an advert right across the forum.
Title: Re: Dear Admin should we have a new section headed name and shame
Post by: Brightspark on September 24, 2013, 16:34:02 PM
Quote from: Globetrotter on September 24, 2013, 16:07:49 PM
Quote from: admin on September 24, 2013, 14:47:32 PM
Most of us are guilty of saying the wrong thing inappropriately, butting in at the wrong time, misunderstanding the context of a discussion or saying something that in hindsight may be ill advised from time to time.

I doubt a 'name and shame' will help and I'm sure it won't reduce any bad feeling.

For those that do genuinely offend regularly we can ban them if they don't heed our warnings. To date, rightly or wrongly, we haven't banned anyone (for those reasons) - most people take the hint.

BS - I understand where you're at. In the pub I can enjoy a good slanging match but there are many things I've said in the pub that I'm glad weren't committed to print and as I've said several times before, the 'halcyon days' may have been fun for some but behind the scenes too many people were being genuinely distressed and upset and we were getting involved in legal situations far too often for our pleasure.
In this context, I think the 'PC' thing is a facile argument and just used to belittle people's discomfort - usually used alongside 'man up' or 'grow a pair'. Before the term 'PC' existed it was just called good manners or civilised behaviour.
As in rearing children or pets, there comes a time when you have to stop them defecating all over the place - especially when you have guests coming round.

...and I've also said before, there is nothing wrong with a heated debate - but debaters and even boxers are told to stick to the rules and keep it clean.




Having said all that....

QuoteGive me 10 nutters speaking their mind anyday over 1 mentally frail PC crusader.
Isn't that what the Jeremy Kyle show is?

QuoteI guess Labour didn't help in the noughties when they pledged to drive down the cost of owning a pc and helping make it accessible to many.
Was that when they pledged to make the earth rotate around the sun?

QuoteNow it seems full of mentally frail, pc brigade lovers and moaners.
Stop moaning about it. Man up and grow a pair.

To sue me please contact our lawyers Franklin & Bash.

Well put Norrin
And Brightspark, OP did not start this thread, I did, which was never meant to be taken seriously, just a tongue in cheek post. :-* :-*

Thought it was tongue in cheek, I had a feeling it was, never can be too sure though
Title: Re: Dear Admin should we have a new section headed name and shame
Post by: admin on September 24, 2013, 16:56:11 PM
QuoteWhat I don`t understand is your obsession with tidying up.......All forums have contributors that don`t get it right, some just don`t care, some do care but make a mistake. Why not just leave it unless it`s some deliberate attempt to , for example , post an advert right across the forum.
I've already answered that in the link I already posted - it's not complicated: http://www.fuerteventura-forum.com/index.php?topic=16531.msg291978#msg291978 (http://www.fuerteventura-forum.com/index.php?topic=16531.msg291978#msg291978)

QuoteMy post made reference to the gang of three posting endless drivel, you don`t comment on that part of the post
You're in illustrious company. I've been known to quote and comment on Shakespeare without analysing or reciting the whole play. I've quoted the Bible without quoting the whole tome and I've quoted Homer (Simpson) without analysing the entire episode.
You've just quoted Globetrotter and me without commenting on the rest of our posts.

Title: Re: Dear Admin should we have a new section headed name and shame
Post by: Paddster on September 24, 2013, 17:11:53 PM
Who gives a (http://31.media.tumblr.com/avatar_5005f73756f3_96.png)  ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D
Title: Re: Dear Admin should we have a new section headed name and shame
Post by: woe10 on September 24, 2013, 17:31:02 PM
I'd like to name and shame Globetrotter, for mearly posting without thinking  :o
Title: Re: Dear Admin should we have a new section headed name and shame
Post by: Biggles on September 24, 2013, 17:36:00 PM
I'd like to name and shame woe10 for misspeling mispeling misspelling ..... Nah I take it back.
Title: Re: Dear Admin should we have a new section headed name and shame
Post by: woe10 on September 24, 2013, 17:39:31 PM
Quote from: woe10 on September 24, 2013, 17:31:02 PM
I'd like to name and shame Globetrotter, for mearly posting without thinking  :o

Ha Ha, Sorry I merely cut and pasted it from Globetrotters initial post. Not my fault  ???
Title: Re: Dear Admin should we have a new section headed name and shame
Post by: Biggles on September 24, 2013, 17:42:35 PM
In that case I'd like to name and shame Globetrotter for misspeling mispeling misspelling ..... Nah.. forget it.
Title: Re: Dear Admin should we have a new section headed name and shame
Post by: Globetrotter on September 24, 2013, 18:27:44 PM
Lol :o
Title: Re: Dear Admin should we have a new section headed name and shame
Post by: IsThisForumStillGoingWow on September 24, 2013, 19:05:44 PM
(https://fbcdn-sphotos-d-a.akamaihd.net/hphotos-ak-frc1/1001660_10151678956179455_514476062_n.jpg)
Title: Re: Dear Admin should we have a new section headed name and shame
Post by: Biggles on September 24, 2013, 19:42:42 PM
Miss Pelt 1,000,000 BC

(http://edcone.typepad.com/.a/6a00d8341cc33e53ef0133f243fb71970b-800wi)
Title: Re: Dear Admin should we have a new section headed name and shame
Post by: Spike On Q on September 24, 2013, 20:41:25 PM
This thread seems to have done the trick, the new section is almost complete  - good idea
Title: Re: Dear Admin should we have a new section headed name and shame
Post by: Spike On Q on September 24, 2013, 20:43:11 PM
Sorry - my mistake, I didn't realise the list of names were contributors!
Title: Re: Dear Admin should we have a new section headed name and shame
Post by: IsThisForumStillGoingWow on September 24, 2013, 22:46:25 PM
Yes Spike...we are all here now  ;D Thanks for joining us....complete  ;D ;D ;D
Title: Re: Dear Admin should we have a new section headed name and shame
Post by: IsThisForumStillGoingWow on September 25, 2013, 01:15:39 AM
You don't happen to know a Spanish restaurant in Rome btw do you ?   ::) ::) ::)
Title: Re: Dear Admin should we have a new section headed name and shame
Post by: Boston terrier on September 25, 2013, 08:54:46 AM
I'm sure that I don't stand alone,but I often come on this forum to find information and enjoy others thoughts and ideas and experiences on a whole range of different things,but all to often it gets dragged down by arrogant bullying comments which spoils the enjoyment of coming on here! I would hate to think that new comers that come on here that have either yet to experience the beauty of  fuerteventura or genuinely have a love of the island will be put of from getting valuable info from this site due to the constant nasty arrogant comments and will put them off making any contribution to the forum in fear of being ripped apart,there's no need for it on here it spoils it for everyone else which judging by the mentality I don't think their give a s--t. >:(
Title: Re: Dear Admin should we have a new section headed name and shame
Post by: Ivemovedon on September 25, 2013, 16:04:25 PM
is that you again bs? lol
Title: Re: Dear Admin should we have a new section headed name and shame
Post by: Brightspark on September 25, 2013, 17:49:31 PM
Not guilty lol, lost touch with this thread :/
Title: Re: Dear Admin should we have a new section headed name and shame
Post by: Ivemovedon on September 25, 2013, 18:28:55 PM
wouldn't bother if i were you it hit skid row about 6 or 7 posts ago.
Title: Re: Dear Admin should we have a new section headed name and shame
Post by: IsThisForumStillGoingWow on September 25, 2013, 23:24:39 PM
Admin know excatly who is posting here under 'new' names by the IP address..that's how Brightsparks pic was there on Chippy thread..it's a shame it's not done on everyones posts..the origional computer that posts are done from..I only have my one here but theres several who post under different names  ;)  ;)
Title: Re: Dear Admin should we have a new section headed name and shame
Post by: IsThisForumStillGoingWow on September 25, 2013, 23:54:39 PM
OR a few forums I'm on actually show the IP address next to the users name..  ;) ;D
Title: Re: Dear Admin should we have a new section headed name and shame
Post by: Ivemovedon on September 26, 2013, 05:45:39 AM
Some of the multi characters in the past used to be good fun and done for a laugh, or as a joke thread like the latest from bs. If they are created to back up personal agendas though its a whole different ball game.
Title: Re: Dear Admin should we have a new section headed name and shame
Post by: KWC on September 26, 2013, 09:57:19 AM
Quote from: hev on September 25, 2013, 23:24:39 PM
Admin know excatly who is posting here under 'new' names by the IP address.

If they use a proxy server then it can be very difficult.
Title: Re: Dear Admin should we have a new section headed name and shame
Post by: Can the Man on September 26, 2013, 14:14:14 PM
Kenny, is that a proxy server or a poxy server  :D :D :D
Title: Re: Dear Admin should we have a new section headed name and shame
Post by: dagwood on September 26, 2013, 15:03:29 PM
I think we should name and shame everyone that eats meat. And just to be fair we should name and shame everyone who never eats meat.
Title: Re: Dear Admin should we have a new section headed name and shame
Post by: KWC on September 27, 2013, 10:03:40 AM
Quote from: Can the Man on September 26, 2013, 14:14:14 PM
Kenny, is that a proxy server or a poxy server  :D :D :D

Possibly both can  ;)
Title: Re: Dear Admin should we have a new section headed name and shame
Post by: Can the Man on September 29, 2013, 23:58:34 PM
Quote from: KWC54 on September 27, 2013, 10:03:40 AM
Quote from: Can the Man on September 26, 2013, 14:14:14 PM
Kenny, is that a proxy server or a poxy server  :D :D :D

Possibly both can  ;)

So it's a proxy proxy server then Kenny  ;) ;) ;) ;)

I don't know what the heck Dagwood is on about, I think he should be posting over on dross ??? ??? ::) ::) ::)
Title: Re: Dear Admin should we have a new section headed name and shame
Post by: dagwood on September 30, 2013, 19:18:58 PM
Quote from: Can the Man on September 29, 2013, 23:58:34 PM
Quote from: KWC54 on September 27, 2013, 10:03:40 AM
Quote from: Can the Man on September 26, 2013, 14:14:14 PM
Kenny, is that a proxy server or a poxy server  :D :D :D

Possibly both can  ;)

So it's a proxy proxy server then Kenny  ;) ;) ;) ;)

I don't know what the heck Dagwood is on about, I think he should be posting over on dross ??? ??? ::) ::) ::)
Just giving a couple of good reasons to ban people Can, they make as much sense as the rest of them. You should check out my latest post on Jokes.